I am a shy, quiet, and hidden Korean exchange student June.
I think I have to finish posting this before Alan posts new article. ^^;
Last week, a couple of classmates asked me ‘how Korean girls think about housing and marriage’.
At first, I should explain the ways of Korean housing.
We can buy a house(or flat), or rent. And we have several ways of rent-a-house.
Thus, I can draw this 5 housing option.
0. buying house.
1. 月貰 monthly rent.
2. 傳貰 lease of a house on a deposit basis. pay deposit at the beginning of contract period, and get back when the contract expired.
3. mix 1 & 2
4. Stay in his or her parents house.
For example, I rent my hut through 3. It has kitchen, bedroom in same space and seperate bathroom. This is similiar with studio.
333 thousand HKD deposit and 650 HKD monthly payment.
I think this is very cheap one in Seoul.
I majored electrical engineering in university, and worked as an engineer for several years. I mean, I lived a man’s life. I had just few female colleagues. I mean, I lived a man’s life. So I had to ask my high school friend.
She graduated women’s university, always she shares how common Korean girls’ view.
If they marry after some dating and love each others, the man prepare house through the way of 0 or 2.
If they meet each other with a view to marriage, the man should buy the house, but not always. They want to start their new life on stable status. If they could not prepare any house, they have to make more effort to buy a house.
In conclusion, prepartion of house is man’s role.
According to her opinion, it’s common.
I have to comment some more about this.
Right after the university, even the guy saved whole of salary for a couple of years, he cannot pay deposit in seoul. That’s too expensive, mission impossible. (Or, the house must be very old one.)
That means, buy-a-house or rent-a-flat becomes a duty of ‘grown-up’ son’s parents.
Does it make sense?
No.. I don’t think so.
Why should they buy a new house for his son? They have to prepare their silver age also.
Now the son makes his own family.
(One of my friend said that I am crazy, and she thinks -she is pretty sure-, buying a house is duty of man’s parents. I said she is crazy.)
On the other hand, a friend of mine will marry next year.
She is a lawyer, and her boy friend is a public prosecutor.
Her bf has some debt from his parents.
Therefore she decided to prepare house, and will help payback his debt.
I think, everything depends on their own situation.
Well, in some cases, girls consern about men’s appearance, wealth, health, their parents, and height.
But, we know, almost of girls are very generous their own boy friends.
Is that a matter of love? Haha, or chemistry..
Hmm.. as many other countries, Korean marriage is a big deal for everyone.
Wow.. it’s already about 4 am.. ==;;;